I’m sorry if it appears that I’m stuck on the subject of eczema, but while I’ve been writing during the past few days about our battle with Malachi’s eczema , I have been amazed at all the emotions it has brought out in me.  I’ve been bawling over the keyboard like crazy.  One of the biggest emotions I’ve felt is thankfulness!  (Is thankfulness an emotion?  I sure am feeling it!)

Those were some tough years.  Many days we felt like we were fighting a losing battle.  We got little sleep.  The kind of sleep you get when you first bring a newborn baby home from the hostpital?  We got that kind of sleep for three years.  After Malachi turned three he finally started sleeping through most nights, only occasionally waking up scratching and crying.  He slept the most peacefully if he was in our bed, so that is exactly where he slept until about a year ago (he’s five now).

At about age 3, the eczema gradually began to clear.  It started healing first on his head and slowly moved down his body until now he mostly just suffers from sores on his legs.  How I wish he didn’t suffer with eczema at all anymore…but WOW am I thankful that it is “only” on his legs now.  He is not nearly as miserable as he had been.  And he’s now able to sleep the night through and feel healthy and rested.

As I’ve been writing about our fight against chronic eczema, I’ve sifted through his baby pictures so that I could post one or two for you to see the severity of his problem.  I’ve just not been able to post one though.  Those pictures are painful for me to look at and I’m sure they’d be painful for you to look at too.  The poor guy.  What a tough kid. 

BUT, because looking at all his baby and toddler pictures reminded me of how far we’ve come and made me so incredibly thankful to be at this point in our battle, I decided to go ahead and give you an idea of what we’ve been fighting against.

This picture was taken on Mother’s Day ‘07, almost three years ago when Malachi was about 2 1/2.  It’s not a super close up pic, because I just couldn’t post one that was.  But, you get an idea of how the rash covered his face and neck (also arms and legs, but you can’t tell that in the picture).

Incidently, while we were fighting Malachi’s eczema issue, we were simultaneously fighting a battle of stubborn-ness with our then five year old Elias.  There wasn’t an easy remedy for that issue either, but I think we’re on the winning end of it now.. 

And now here we are, three years later…

I am overjoyed with thanks that Malachi is feeling so much better!!  Is it any wonder I can’t stop kissing those soft cheeks?! 
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It’s finally March, and I could write a 2,000 word blog post about how grateful I am that winter is drawing to a close and spring is right around the muddy little corner.

But, I’ll spare you.

What I will share though is that while the long, cold days of winter can seem never-ending…they have been much more bearable because I never feel completely alone and void of adult conversation.

I may be cooped up in the house with a bunch of kids all day having frequent animated conversations about Darth Vader and Yoda.  I may have very few opportunities to be outside getting fresh air.  I may have Nerf bullets flying around me and kids launching themselves off the stair case in an effort to burn off wintertime energy.

But I remain sane (relatively speaking of course).

Because I have you.

Through your comments and emails, I am a part of a community that takes me to a warmer climate, a comfortable sofa, a cozy tea party.

The online community I am honored to enjoy with you here has made my winter more bearable.  I don’t feel cooped up and alone. 

I feel as though I am surrounded by friends.

I am so very grateful for you.

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Last Friday I just didn’t feel well.  I was achy all over and I felt like if I wasn’t really careful…I’d develop a very bad cold.  So I decided to take the “day off” and focus on resting, taking vitamins and eating nutrition-packed -foods and drinking lots of water and herbal tea.  I know my body well enough to know that if I push it on a day like that, I can just count on getting REALLY sick.

Thankfully Matt had the morning off and was able to hang out with the boys until 2ish.  And I rested.  It was wonderful.

Can I just tell you some of the sweetest parts of Mama having to “clock out” for a day?

First, at lunch…Matt and the boys decided to put together a big fruit salad to go with the pizza pockets (that were thankfully in the freezer ready for an easy meal).  They had all kinds of fun mixing together just about every kind of fruit we had in the house.  They added some cream…then Justus (the chef) sprinkled on some raisins and coconut flakes.  It was SERIOUSLY delicious (and just what I needed)!

Later that afternoon Justus came in to my room and said, “Don’t worry mom.  Before I ate my plate of fruit salad I took a couple of pictures for you in case you want to share our recipe on your website.”

Is that the SWEETEST!?  Does my family know me or what?
And isn’t their salad beautiful?!
I think Justus needs to write a guest post and share his recipe.

Second – and I do think this is my favorite of all the ways my family pitched in this weekend – Malachi needed a birthday gift as he was going to a party Saturday for his friend Emma.

He was determined that he was going to get Emma a baby doll.  He just HAD to get her a baby doll.  There was no other option.  I loved the idea and couldn’t wait to take him to the store to pick one out (because I haven’t picked out a baby doll at the store since…???).

However, since I was feeling so crummy Friday and knew Saturday would be pretty full…I resorted to calling Matt at work and asking him to see what he could find at Walmart on his way home that night.

You understand what I had to ask my husband to do, right? My husband, the father of four strapping sons needed to go to the store and pick out a baby doll.  I wasn’t even really able to give him any direction or advice since it had been since ??? that I’d even been down the pink aisles at Walmart.  We tend to stick to the brown and black and sword type aisles when we go.

But, Matt agreed and I have to say that if it’s even possible…I now love him even more.  The guy spent 30 – yes thirty - minutes in the dolly aisle trying to figure out which baby doll would be the best one for Emma.

Malachi (and ALL the boys – even the 12 year old) were SO excited to see Emma’s baby doll the next morning.  Emma’s pretty special to all of us, can you tell?

And third…well…let’s just say I’ve seen all kinds of other little surprises throughout the past couple of days that have shown me what all my boys did while I took the day off.  I found a pair of Matt’s socks in my sock drawer, showing me that the boys folded clothes and attempted to put them away for me.  I found my salt shaker in the TV room, showing me that the boys made themselves popcorn for a movie night Friday so I could rest.  I’m pretty sure I’ll find more “surprises” in the next few days.

Ah, I love my guys.

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It’s cold outside.  The snow is relentless.  A few days ago, I slipped on the ice and fell right on my…

Knee.  Next time perhaps I should avoid the ice.  Oh wait.  It’s everywhere.  Unavoidable.

It’s easy to complain and whine about winter right about now, isn’t it?  I’m a little bit tired of being cold and cooped up.  We could all use a little sunshine right about now.

But, last week after my Azure Standard order came in, I realized how BLESSED we are.  Even though we’re in the middle of winter, with no fruits or vegetables growing around us…we can still get our hands on fresh produce!   Yay for other countries (and other parts of this country) with warmer climates and fruit bearing trees!  Yay for trucks that can bring them to Coldville, Nebraska.  Yay for Azure Standard that makes the opportunity for fresh, delicious organic produce possible!!

I ordered bunches of organic apples and pears, cauliflower, broccoli, carrots, avocados and onions.  At the store I got oranges, clementines, a pineapple and bananas.  A friend brought over more oranges, apples, carrots and grapes.

The beautiful, fresh, healthy produce reminded me once again of God’s goodness and provision.  Suddenly I didn’t feel so sick of winter anymore.  I felt blessed and taken care of.

I had to create not one, but two bowls of the pretty fruit. 
It just looks like a little bit of spring-time on my countertop now!

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My husband and I are a little rebellious when it comes to Valentine’s Day.  Shouldn’t we show our love every day of the year?  Do we really need to spend a lot of money on February 14 to say, “I love you”? 

Last year for Valentine’s Day, I got new potholders and Matt got new work gloves.  It was our special way of saying, “I heart you.  Will you be mine?  Oh wait, you already are mine.  Here let me give you a little something you really need.”

This year, I really didn’t expect anything at all.  There was nothing either of us needed, Matt was working all weekend…I thought we’d have our special Peach Cobbler breakfast and that would be the end of it.

Imagine my surprise Sunday morning when I stumbled out of bed to grab the church clothes I’d laid out the night before…and there on top of my shirt was this:

How fun is that?  Matt found it a few weeks ago on clearance (at a shop downtown where he does snow removal service) and thought it was perfect.  I’m not sure how well you know me, but those words?  They describe me pretty accurately.  Wild and wacky?  Yeah…that’s me the majority of the time.  Wonderful?  Well…thankfully at least my husband thinks so.  (I can also be rather dull and dorky…but thankfully those particular ornaments were sold out.)

I got a big kick out of my surprise gift…and it cracks me up every time I look at it.  I love it that Matt was sweet enough to get me such a fun gift and surprise me with it!  And I’m really grateful that even though I’m totally wacky, he chose me anyway. 
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Last weekend I watched my friend’s two kids while she and her husband spent some time helping her mother as she recovers from a recent surgery.

Keeping her kids was no trouble for me because they are SUCH good kids.  They just played together with my kids and kept each other happy for hours.  In fact, they were here while I was in the middle of my cooking and baking marathon…and it was EASY.  Yeah, they can come over ANY TIME.

Imagine my surprise when my friend showed up at the end of the day with a beautiful bouquet of flowers for me!  Seriously…her kids made my day so much easier…I should have given her some flowers!

My beautiful pink flowers in the middle of a snowy, cloudy winter have been such a cheerful addition to my kitchen.  It’s amazing what something simple like a bouquet of flowers can do to lift a person’s spirits.  Hooray for flowers in the winter!
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When you’re an un-informed parent, you have to just trust the doctor you’re talking to. 

I don’t like that feeling…just listening and blindly nodding as someone tells me what I have to do.  They’re the expert right?  They must know what they’re talking about.

That’s how I felt a couple of months ago when we took our eight year old to the orthodontist.  She did ALL KINDS of x-rays and examinations and mold taking and picture taking.  Then she told us that Elias would need braces…starting now.  After the braces would come retainers and some other stuff I don’t remember because I was the smiling, nodding parent just trying to take in all this information that was all so new to me.

We didn’t think we had much of a choice.  It sounded like we were going to need to fork out the big bucks.

Then…because of some weird (and obviously God sent) circumstances…we ended up taking Elias to a different orthodontist.

This one took a nice (free) thorough look at Elias’ teeth, turned to me and said, “With a little work, I think we can take care of this without braces.”

Really?!

Yep.  She showed Elias how he needed to use his fingers several times a day to try and push his front teeth together to help give room for this side teeth to grow in.  Then, she showed him how he could use his tongue and push on his lower front teeth to create more space for the missing bottom tooth.  And that’s it. 

Really?!

I could have kissed her.  But I didn’t.  But I really wanted to.  I would have just settled for a hug, but she had other patients she needed to go see.

Elias has been pushing on his teeth ever since we got home.  Oblivious about the cost, he’d rather not have metal in his mouth that might have the tendancy to cause pain.   Quite aware of the cost, Matt and I are so thankful that we were able to seek a second opinion and to learn that indeed…we do have options. 

Wahoo…we just saved a few thousand dollars!!  And…we saved our little boy quite a bit of trauma.  Thank you God!
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It’s winter.  It’s cold.  It’s very, very cold.  There’s snow all over the ground and the wind is trying to blow me from my driveway into the neighbor’s yard.  But there’s snow in the neighbor’s yard too, and I’m not too keen on being blown into it.

Therefore, the boys and I have been cooped up in the house for weeks.  While I very much love being at home and I get so much more done when I’m at home for long periods of time…there comes a time when I need to get out…and the boys just need to RUN long and hard for a long, long time.

During the winter, running usually just takes place inside the house…up and down stairs…and there are usually nerf guns involved.  I’m okay with that…but after a few weeks…the walls start to creep in on a person.  Not to mention that being hit with a nerf bullet while I’m trying to type can make me lose my train of thought.

This is why I am so thankful that my college town has a field house.  The college owns it, but during certain parts of the day, it is open to the community.  A few other ladies and I have been meeting there a couple times a week lately to take walks around the track.  And the kids?  They run.  And they run and they run.

I wanted to get a shot of how big the place is so I backed way up…but do you see that little spot of yellow on the big green turf?  That’s Justus running and running and running.  Then look up a little and do you see a railing and two tiny little gray spots up there?  That’s two of my friends walking.  I’ll join them in a minute, but right now I’m taking a picture. 

Here’s Asa kicking a soccer ball in the baseball batting area.  No, I didn’t put him in the cage to punish him.  He wants to kick the ball as hard as he can and within the netting he can do that without having to chase it very far.  And also, after he kicks the ball as hard as he can, it doesn’t have a chance of hitting someone (like me) in the face because the net keeps it in. Very cool.

These breaks from being cooped up at home have been so refreshing.  The ladies and I have wonderful visits as we walk, not to mention we’re getting good exercise.  The kids run and run and run, have fun their friends and get really, really tired.  The stir crazy feeling we have at home goes away for a while.  It’s wonderful!  (Psst, local readers!  If you want to join us sometime email me for details!)

I’m SO thankful that we have a field house available to us.   We may just get through the winter in one piece!
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Let me tell you a little bit about my Nana.

My Nana is 83 years old, but she acts like she’s 63.  (I totally hope I have her genes!)  She can still get down on the floor and play with her great-grandkids, she goes out to lunch with her friends, she goes shopping…she’s so much fun!

Here is my family with Nana
the summer of 2008 during a family reunion.

Lately, something really cool has been happening between my Nana and me.

Email. 

She lives in Arkansas, so we only see each other at family reunions every other year or so.  Lately, we’ve been emailing back and forth.  They are such treasured emails.  I’ve been loving it!  She writes of memories of me when I was born and she came to help my mom…she tells me sweet things I said to her when I was a little girl…she encourages me as I parent my boys.

It has been the neatest thing.  I plan to save these emails from her in a folder because they are so wonderful to read.

One of Nana’s favorite words is “precious”.  Nana has told me hundreds of times how precious I am and how precious Matt is and how precious my boys are.

And now we have these precious emails. 

I’m so thankful for my precious Nana. 
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Over the weekend, Matt and I finally had a chance to sit down together to go over our 2010 budget. 

I know I’m a bit of a nerd when it comes to looking at the budget with my husband…but in a weird kind of way, it feels like a date of sorts (the kind of date where I’m in my stained bathrobe sporting a pitiful ponytail and there are four loud kids running around with stinky feet).

It’s just nice to sit down with my husband and plan and dream and discuss our daily lives and our future goals. 

I came away from our “budgeting date” extremely thankful for two specific things:

1. My husband and I are on the same page when it comes to spending, giving and saving money.  I know that  marriages can be strained because one spouse likes to spend more money than the other…or one spouse likes to hold back money and not share with those in need.  I’m thankful that Matt and I barely have to use words…and then when one of us does, the other just nods…because we think alike when it comes to money.
2. The bottom line of our budget showed us that after all is said and done, this year we should be able to give a little more and save a little more.  It was an incredible relief and blessing to see how God has provided what we need to be able to do these things. 

Always, always God takes care of his children. 
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