Feb
08

Gratituesday: Winter Flowers

By Laura · Comments (0)

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Last weekend I watched my friend’s two kids while she and her husband spent some time helping her mother as she recovers from a recent surgery.

Keeping her kids was no trouble for me because they are SUCH good kids.  They just played together with my kids and kept each other happy for hours.  In fact, they were here while I was in the middle of my cooking and baking marathon…and it was EASY.  Yeah, they can come over ANY TIME.

Imagine my surprise when my friend showed up at the end of the day with a beautiful bouquet of flowers for me!  Seriously…her kids made my day so much easier…I should have given her some flowers!

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My beautiful pink flowers in the middle of a snowy, cloudy winter have been such a cheerful addition to my kitchen.  It’s amazing what something simple like a bouquet of flowers can do to lift a person’s spirits.  Hooray for flowers in the winter!
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What are you thankful for this Gratituesday?  Write about it on your blog, then come link up here.  If you don’t have a blog, be sure to leave a comment letting us know what you’re thankful for!

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You know how the husband of the Proverbs 31 Woman is “respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land”?

Why do you suppose he was so highly respected?  Because he’s just that cool?  Yeah maybe.  I’m sure he was a pretty neat guy.

But here’s what I think:

I think he was respected by others because he was first respected by his wife.

If his wife didn’t respect him…didn’t talk respectfully to him…didn’t talk respectfully to others about him…why in the world would others respect him?

I am not an expert.  Nor do I think that the following statement is absolute across the board without exception.

But.

I believe we as women have the power to make or break our man. 

Without a doubt, a big part of who a man becomes is completely up to him.  You can not change your husband because ultimately he must make his own choices and decide who his God is.

But.

I believe that the way I treat my husband; the way I respect him, talk to him, listen to him and talk to others about him can have a huge impact on the choices he makes and the man he becomes.

If I am constantly being sarcastic and negative to him…putting down the things he does…rolling my eyes at him…doing things opposite of what he asks of me…questioning everything he says and does…letting him know that he is annoying me…ignoring his needs…

If I am griping to others about him…laughing and joking to my friends about the ridiculous things he does…whining about all the ways he just doesn’t measure up…making fun of him in front of his friends…

I think I could slowly but surely break my man.

But.

If I show respect in the way I talk to him and listen to him…in the way I talk to others about him…and in the way I talk to him when we’re with others…

I can build him up and make him into more of the man and husband God wants him to be.

These are the some of the things I try to consider about how I talk to my husband or talk to others about my husband:

  • Would I want him to talk to me like this?
  • Would I want him to look at me this way when he’s talking to me?
  • Would I want him to talk to his friends about me like this?
  • Would I want him to talk to me in front of other people this way?

Hey…I don’t want Matt to talk to the guys about what a dork I was when I forgot to pick up the stuff he asked me to pick up at the store yesterday.  I don’t want him to gripe to his buddies about how annoying I am when I leave cabinet doors open time after time.   Why in the world would I think it would be okay for me to whine and gripe about him to my friends?

Now…is it ever okay to vent to a friend and share concerns in your marriage?  Absolutely.  I think women sharing with women can be healthy and helpful.  But I think it is VERY important to pray about it first and consider the outcome of the conversation.  You want your friends (and family) to still have respect for your husband after your conversation.  Speak wisely.

Share with us:  Not only is it a good idea to NOT SAY negative things to others about your husband, it’s also a great idea to say lots of positive things about him to others!  Please take some time to share with us some of the great things your husband does for you and your family.  Go ahead…start bragging!  If you aren’t in the habit of sharing great things about your husband…this is a great place to start!

Challenge Yourself:  What are some ways you might need to improve when it comes to talking respectfully to or about your husband?  Would your husband “be respected at the city gate” (Prov. 31:23)?  (You’re welcome to share your thoughts on this too…but please don’t feel like you have to.  This is more for your reflection and prayer.)

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Feb
07

Menu Plan for the Week

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After my cooking and baking marathon last weekend…this weekend seemed so…easy.  The only extra food items I made this weekend were a Banana Cake and several loaves of  Applesauce Bread (made with shredded apples instead of applesauce).  The great thing about having black bananas and grainy apples is that you can still eat them!!  I wish all food that “went bad” had a good recipe to go with it!

Several more inches of snow fell, so we finally made some Snow Ice Cream!!  That stuff is so good!  (Even if you do sit there with stiff, blue lips while you eat it.  It is so worth it!)

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Here’s our menu this week:

Sunday, February 7
Oatmeal, applesauce
Chicken fried steak strips (recipe coming this week), mashed potatoes, gravy, peas
Super Bowl Party – German chocolate cake, cream cheese salsa dip

Monday, February 8
Whole wheat waffles with blueberry topping
Grilled cheese sandwiches, tomato soup, strawberry-peach slushies
BBQ meatballs, baked potatoes, green beans

Tuesday, February 9
Warm vanilla soother, homemade oat crunch cereal
Tuna salad, crispy cheese crackers, strawberry yogurt fruit dip with apples
Italian roast wraps, fruit salad

Wednesday, February 10
Applesauce bread, pears
Pizza casserole, tossed salad
Chicken noodle soup, carrot sticks, homemade rolls

Thursday, February 11
Scrambled eggs, cinnamon toast, oranges
Chicken veggie quesadillas, fruit-kefir smoothies
Swiss steak over rice, green beans

Friday, February 12
Peanut butter honey toast, bananas
Beef and cheese burritoes, canned peaches
Lasagna, tossed salad, corn

Saturday, Febrary 13
Cheese omelets, fruit platter
Leftover buffet
Chicken and biscuits, tossed salad

Snacks on hand this week:
Apples, graham crackers, Katie’s homemade wheat thins, milkshakes

Upcoming posts this week:

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Feb
07

Fun Valentine Links

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Here are some fun Valentine links full of great ideas for keeping you creative this Valentine week!  There’s something about all the pink and red of Valentine week that makes me feel all mushy inside.   Oh so much fun!

**Over the weekend, the boys and I started working on valentines for our upcoming homeschool Valentine party.  We had a blast coloring (yes, I actually got them to sit down and color for a while), then gluing our valentine wrappers around candy bars.  I got the wrappers here.  They are downloadable and they are on sale!

**For more fun ideas, go grab these  FREE ebooks filled with fun valentine crafts!

**I’m excited to share about an organization called Stronger Families .  They are issuing a 7 Day Love Challenge which begins today.  When you sign up for the challenge, you’ll be entered to win a free romantic weekend with your honey.  Stronger Families has wonderful information and tools for growing your marriage!  (Thanks for the heads up, Krista!)

**I mentioned this link before, but it’s worth mentioning again… Click Here for a free ebook filled with recipes to treat your hubby to a special romantic dinner!! 

**Dayspring has some nice Valentine gifts available.  Click here to grab a 15% off coupon code for your Dayspring order.

**If you’re thinking of sending a bouquet of Valentine flowers to someone you love who lives far away…be sure to check out the deals offered here.

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Feb
05

Question #58

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Coffee. 

LOVE the way it smells.  Really, REALLY don’t like the way it tastes.

When I was little, I thought that drinking coffee was part of being a cool grown up.  I loved the way coffee drinkers held their mugs.  I loved the way coffee drinkers happily sipped their steaming drink.

And I LOVED the smell of coffee brewing each morning. 

It just smelled so…cozy and comfortable. 

I figured that when I was older and allowed to drink coffee, I would just love it!  I thought that I’d be able to sit there with the grown-ups and look cool while I sipped my coffee too. 

And then I tried some.

YUCK!  Seriously?  THIS is what coffee tastes like?

I was in shock.  That is not the taste I expected to go along with the great smell and the cool coffee sipping. 

Later I gave it another try…this time with cream and sugar.  Lots and lots of sugar.

Nope…nothing could mask that taste for me. 

To this day, I just can’t drink coffee.  I can’t even eat a coffee flavored jelly bean.

Oh, but I still love the way it smells. 

Matt doesn’t like coffee either, so I LOVE it when we have house guests who like to drink it.  We have a tiny little coffeepot.  When we have overnight guests, with hope and a gleam in my eye I always ask them  if they’d like me to make coffee for them in the morning.  I LOVE it when they say yes because when I make it I get to smell it brewing!!  Mmmm!

So…are you a coffee drinker?  How do you take your coffee?

If you are a coffee drinker, will you PLEASE come over some time so I can brew coffee for you?!  Please?

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Catch up on Part 1, Part 2 and Part 3 of our healthy eating journey.

It was 1998.  We had just moved to Colorado Springs where the climate was mild, the mountains were beautiful and there were all kinds of fun and wonderful things to do.  Naturally then, upon moving to this great new city, what do I get excited about?  The grocery stores there doubled coupons!!!!  

Just before moving, I had started to try out a little bit of couponing.  I had begun to realize how using coupons in the grocery store could really save money.  But DOUBLE coupons?  Be still my heart.  (By the way…let’s all be reassured that each time I am typing the word coupon, I am expecting you to pronounce it KYOOPON.  You are, aren’t you?)

Our boxes weren’t even unpacked yet when I clipped the few coupons I had and headed out to see what kinds of good deals I could get.  I quickly discovered that if I watched the sales very carefully and asked everyone at church to give me the coupons they didn’t use…I could get all kinds of groceries for free or practically free.

I became quite an expert at spending almost nothingat the grocery store.  People started calling me The Coupon Queen.    I would come home with bag after bag after bag of groceries for $15…total!  During the time we lived in Colorado, our family size grew from a family of three to a family of five.  I was feeding all of us (plus a constant flow of guests) for only $100 per month.  That number included the purchase all of our toiletries and paper products too.

I was awfully proud of this accomplishment.  Matt was awfully proud of this accomplishment too, not to mention grateful for how much money I was saving our family.

I remember taking my friend Heather grocery shopping with me one night (because she wanted to see how I did that coupon thing I did).  She was amazed at how I used coupons to save money…and also incredibly relieved to see so many processed foods go into my cart.  She said to me, “Since you are a stay at home mom, I thought you were one of those people who grinds their own flour or something.”  I believe my exact response was, “No way!   People actually grind their own flour?!”  (Yes Laura, people actually grind their own flour.)

So, what were we eating for $100/month?

Well, since my main focus was spending as little as possible  and using as many coupons as I could, I tended to avoid the produce section.  I hardly ever had coupons for fresh fruits and vegetables and those items seemed expensive to me.  I watched for meat to go on sale, then used it very sparingly.  When a recipe called for a pound of ground beef, I often just used 1/4 to a 1/2 pound instead to make the meat stretch farther.

I did believe in feeding us all fruits and vegetables at each meal, but the fruits and vegetables we ate were almost always from a can since I often had a coupon for those, or waited for them to go on sale 4/$1.00. 

Therefore…my pantry was filled with boxes of Hamburger Helper, Rice-a-Roni, boxed potatoes, spaghettios, mac and cheese boxes, pop tarts, fruit snacks, cereal, canned soup…whatever I could get for free or cheap.

That became my focus.  Free or cheap.

I did still make quite a bit of food from scratch (although making food from scratch has a new meaning to me now). 

I was just trying to do the best I could with our small income.  By spending so little on food, we were able to put a little money into savings.  I was helping my family save, I was feeding others, I was having a BLAST!  Using coupons was a really fun hobby!

In 2002…we moved back to Nebraska…the land of NO double coupons.  NOW what would I do?  What about my fun hobby?  How would I afford groceries now?

To be continued…
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This post is linked to Frugal Friday.

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Hopefully you’ve noticed one of my newest sponsors, The Christian Meditator

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The Christian Meditator is a site that offers help to the hurting…as well as encouragement for everyone to spend time daily with God.  You can sign up to receive their free daily meditation guide here.

Rhonda, from The Christian Meditator, sent me her Control Negative Thoughts CD to listen to.  I found it inspirational and relaxing.  Her cd walks you through the process of letting go of all of the hubbub around you so that you can focus…really focus…on the goodness of God. 

I feel like Rhonda’s ministry at The Christian Meditator is a very valuable one and I encourage you to take a look around her site to see how it might benefit you.  Remember to sign up for the free daily meditation guide while you’re there!

Rhonda has offered to give away a FREE Mp3 download of her Secret Place Meditation

“He that dwells in the secret place of the Most High shall abide in the shadow of the Almighty.  I will say of my Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress; My God; in Him I will trust.  Psalm 91: 1-2

If you’d like a chance to win a FREE Mp3 download of Rhonda’s Secret Place Meditation, leave a comment at the end of this post!

Thank you Rhonda for your generosity and for your ministry!

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Feb
03

Guest Post: Choosing to Adopt

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Today Jill from CampFunk shares her story as she and her family are working toward adopting a little girl from Ethiopia.  I hope you will be as inspired as I am after reading about the Funkhouser’s journey
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First of all I want to thank Laura for letting me post on her blog.

I am writing this entry as a guest here to let you know about this wonderful journey my family and I are participating in. My name is Jill.  My husband Dave and I live in a small town in Northeast Wisconsin (Kiel) where Dave proudly works as the police chief. We have 4 wonderful children, three boys and a girl, all who are ages 6 and under and all who have a deep love of God.

Even with our God-loving and fun-filled house, we decided we wanted more from life. So, this past fall, we started the process to adopt a child from Ethiopia.  Dave and I felt that God was laying something heavy upon our hearts, that we had more love to give and certainly room in our home and more importantly in our hearts. Every time we thought about it and put up obstacles against adoption, God smashed those obstacles with an overwhelming need that is so evident in our world. There are so many children who need our help.

So what makes a woman who already has 4 little kids of her own want more? People often think (and say) “you’re crazy!” but adoption has always been something I had dreamed of, even as a child. Soon after our youngest child was born, I felt we were getting too comfortable, even with the craziness in our life, and that we were meant to do more and to help more than we do. I had this sense of “Okay, God…We’re ready for whatever you are about to put in front of us…Bring it on!” 

My husband Dave was more reluctant to just dive right in so we spent a solid year of research and connecting with other families talking about the many risks, problems, and extremely high costs of adoption. Even with the information, Dave was still reluctant but he told me that he would ask God for direction and did. Dave prayed and asked God for signs on what to do. The very same morning he told me this he stopped for gas on his way into work and a van pulled up on the opposite side of the gas pumps. Written in block graphic letters across the back window in bold print was “Adoption is the only Option” and out of the van popped a whole bunch of kids, all who Dave learned were adopted. They smiled and laughed and talked to Dave about how their life now was so wonderful. It was truly a miraculous experience for Dave.

As if that obvious sign wasn’t enough; Dave and I both were repeatedly exposed to numerous other encounters with children who were adopted from other countries. Our waitress on a dinner date was adopted from Africa, the family camping next to us had adopted a little boy from Africa, our tour guide on a mini-vacation we took had adopted three children and so on. Everywhere we turned, we received God’s signs that this is what we were meant to do. It had become our mission and we made the commitment to move forward with it.

 In November 2009 we submitted our application to adopt a little girl from Africa and our mission began anew. Our adoption story is one of faith—a mission defined by our desire to participate with God in restoring what’s broken in this world.  We realize we cannot help all of the 147 million of the world’s lost children, but we know that we have room in our hearts and in our home for at least one.

There have been a lot of road bumps along the way with the forces of evil working against us, but for every roadblock, we receive a small blessing and we know that if we stay focused and faithful our loving and wonderful God will provide for us. We humbly ask you to join us on this journey. We ask that you pray for us as we embark on this adventure to bring our little girl home. 

We might not have the answer to the many questions you have but we do know that we have a gracious, kind and loving heavenly Father that delights when His children follow Him– even to uncharted territory. We wait expectantly for all that God has for us along this journey and we would welcome you to come along for the ride!  God is good!

 The Funkhousers will be hosting many fundraisers along the way and have set up a blog site online so that you can follow them on this journey (www.campfunk.blogspot.com).  I encourage you to check out their site and get to know this family.  Maybe there’s a way you can help them out!

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Feb
03

Great Super Bowl Party Food

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Going to (or hosting) a Super Bowl party this weekend?

We’re going to one but I’m trying to figure out if I’m going to watch the game…or just eat yummy food and visit with the other gals. 

Can I embarrass myself by admitting to you that as of this moment, I have no idea who’s even in the Super Bowl this year?  Yes, it’s true.  I have not a clue. 

(It is at a time like this when almost everyone in the world knows something that I don’t know that I usually say something smart-alecky like, “Oh yeah, well…I know how to make mozzarella cheese, hah!“  This either makes me look a little less dumb, or it makes me look like even more of a freak, because hello?  Who makes their own mozzarella cheese?!) 

Super Bowl parties are all about food anyway, right?  I’m trying to decide what I should take.  (Mozzarella cheese maybe?)

I’m looking at picking from some of these ideas:

Are you going to a Super Bowl Party?  What are you taking?  Can someone help me out here and tell me who in the world is playing?  Who should I root for?

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